Thursday, October 13, 2005

Being lonely vs Being lonely

Have u ever wondered why do people need to be with other people? why do we need people? why do we need to be heard? why do we need to talk to people, interact with them? U`d say "i don`t need other people to live" or whatever, but there u go trying to be all tough about it, but think again, unless u were in solitary while in prison, u`ve never experienced ONE day without interacting with people, n u actually like it. Why when we feel people don`t pay us attention, we get depressed or feel weird or feel less than others, i mean why on earth has that person to listen to u ramble on and on, n even if ur stating an efficient-overwhelming-over-the-top-n-interesting fact, still, why do we have to listen to u? we are not obliged to do so. but then again, we feel lonely when we seem unimportant to people. Why do we have to talk to people to be happy? Why can`t I just be alone n just live, u know? I think we can do that n it`s a state of mind. While we are surrounded by people we r going to feel lonely if we don`t interact with them, n if nobody cares for us. I think maybe deep inside we all would like to be self-dependant n not rely on people for happyness(well, it`s not really like that, but u get the point...) like, for example imagine this situation: one guy living in the streets, no family, no money, no religion, no job(damn!) n there`s this guy stranded off in an island(like the tv hit series "LOST"), by himself, taking aside the fact that he`s desperate to be found, let`s analyze this, i`m pretty sure the guy will accept his reality n accept to be lonely n could not end un all crazy n stuff, he could even start liking it, being on his own on an island...he doesn`t feel the pressure of people, u know? now, the other guy, to make a long story short, he could easily go into a killing spree of just kill himself n end it all. Well, that`s everyday life. People feeling ignored, feeling like shit, feeling out of this world n pushed aside, just because people ignore them n they got nothing else in life, then again i ask why do we need people to feel better about ourselves? it`s like if we needed them to boost our existence n way of being, weird...

I guess Oasis was right when they said in the song "D'ya know what i mean": "questions are the answer you might need".

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